Women like confident men. Guys ask me all the time, do looks matter? They do, but they’re not nearly as important as being cocky and funny. Learn to be somewhat cocky and mix it with some humor. Bust her chops sometimes. Act like you’re always having fun. Be powerful but also be playful. When you were a kid, you behaved completely silly and fun. You joked around with girls, had fun with them and that was your way of flirting. Don’t confuse what I mean with being immature. Don’t be telling stupid jokes and being a clown. You’re just acting a bit more childlike.
Cuddle with your pets – There is not much in the world sweeter than a happy cat or dog. Petting and loving animals is a great way to help one stay calm. It is a great way to help raise your We’re all in this together. It will make them feel great too. Pets can sense a mile a way when something is bothering their human. My cats run up to me and try to comfort me whenever I am upset, even if I’m in another room. It would stand to say then that pets know when their humans are really happy as well.
Wouldn’t it be nice if you never had to put on a suit and tie again and you could go to work in your aloha shirt? Wouldn’t it be nice if you never had to good vibes wear shoes and you could just wear your flip flops sandals or thongs every day? Well, this is what a lot of people do. They have taken the “surfing culture” and lifestyle and put it into their daily lives.
Now, if you are unhappy about your life situations and are struggling to feel positive about anything right now this is the time in life when you need to make a decision to make positive changes to look for the good things you have in life however small they may be. Then you can move towards the positive changes you desire. You can create a light at the end of your tunnel, you can create positive things in your life to look towards. This will give you the lift you need to live a more positive life.
I kid you not that all else is secondary. You can have all the chops and talent in the world but if you’re disruptive, egotistical, arrogant, reactionary and if you generally diminish the flow and the energy in the room then you should start looking for another career!
You’re going to run into artists that have a lot of attitude. It’s inevitable and just a matter of time. A couple of buddies of mine were doing a gig with Kenny G and they walked into the rehearsal and there’s Kenny standing there with his saxophone playing away doing his circular breathing thing while he’s meeting all the players! Circular breathing technique allows you to continuously play without stopping. So he’s standing there blasting away on his horn while shaking hands with these guys. And apparently that was just the beginning of the attitude! At one point he yells at the drummer, “Drummer here’s your tempo!” So there are times when you have to steel yourself against the negative vibes. You truly put on your game face in these moments.
Good physical and mental condition is vital to keep a healthy living. You need to maintain the balance for you to attain a good life. You will have to exert effort in order for you to do that. You have to do them regularly so that you will see positive results.